“It has been eight years since my diagnosis and Bob, my hospice patient, has lived with prostate cancer for fourteen years. Even now, Bob’s main problems come from ulcers, a bad heart, and skin cancer rather than prostate cancer.”
“Although his PSA is over 400, Bob has a great sense of humor, is informed on current events, and is a pleasure to be with. He is in charge of his life and refuses to take a back seat to the cancer even at this late stage in his life. That is what this workbook is all about, taking responsibility no matter how aggressive or advanced your particular cancer.” http://bit.ly/122ZpG
"Many people blame the depressed economy, but new jobs are always being created, even in the worst of times. It might not be your fault that you're unemployed, but you are the one responsible for finding a new job. So if there's any obstacle to finding work - its you."
"Actually this suggestion came from my wife at a time when I was moaning about the loss of sexual powers. It has been difficult to hold onto my male identity at a time when I am experiencing hot flashes and fatigue, crying for no reason and a wimp when it comes to physical strength. I have to redefine myself since the old stereotypes of male performance no longer apply. My masculinity today can be measured by courage, character, and commitment rather than physical strength and sexual powers. I am still very much a man by these standards." Balls to the Wall http://bit.ly/2fxcvl
“I focused my attention on schedules and treatments. The passage of time was marked by my next appointment at the clinic. My PSA level became an index of my well-being. Even worse, I began to look for pity and compassion from my family. The prostate cancer worked its way into my everyday thoughts from dawn to dusk. That is when I began taking charge of my life."
Balls to the Wall. http://bit.ly/2fxcvl”
Prostate cancer is a major threat to survival and the treatments are horrible. You and I are certainly justified in grieving that we have this terrible affliction. Being diagnosed with prostate cancer, however, also presents an exceptional opportunity to take our lives in a new direction with unexpected joys and fulfillment. That is what happened has happened to me and it can happen to you.
Had you not received this cancer diagnosis, you would have continued to live your life in the same way you have always lived it. You would measure time in the same way, live by the same set of values, keep the same relationships, and in general do the same things you have always done.
When you are under treatment for prostate cancer, however, your life will change whether you want it to or not. The only question is whether the experience will provide you with a rich and rewarding life with added depth and meaning.The purpose of this workbook is to support you in using the diagnosis of prostate cancer to make a positive transformation in your life. www.lulu.com/jimboulden